From the time I graduated from school, I knew that I must dwell alone sooner or later…
I’d at all times cherished residing with buddies and roommates. However I began to lengthy to return dwelling to simply myself, to look at what I needed with out taking a vote, to make questionable dinner selections with no threat of being side-eyed. Final 12 months, I moved into the coziest condo, and I’ll by no means look again.
For some time, it was understood that my boyfriend and I’d in all probability dwell collectively as quickly as my lease was up. We’d already spent a untimely cohabitation, driving out a plague; and residing collectively appeared just like the pure subsequent step. However ever since transferring to my present place, I can’t think about leaving.
My condo has an attention-grabbing setup. I dwell on one flooring of a Brooklyn brownstone, which I’ve all to myself; my three roommates dwell on different flooring. We hardly see one another and it feels extra like I dwell alone with upstairs neighbors, which is completely perfect. It’s additionally the primary place I’ve felt utterly at dwelling, and I take pleasure in being alone. I really like listening to my roommates stroll previous my door and know that nobody will stroll in unannounced. I really like that I don’t have to attend to make use of the bathe or that I can bleach my hair at one within the morning whereas watching Mission Runway. If I’m overwhelmed with the world, my life can exist in heaps round me, as a result of it’s simply me there. I really like shopping for flowers for myself on the finish of a busy week and diffusing oils as I fall asleep.
Dwelling with another person simply isn’t what I would like but, and I’ve determined that if that is the final time I’ll dwell with no associate, pets or youngsters, I wish to cherish it. I wish to make it much more of a sanctuary and bear in mind it fondly sometime after I’m in mattress with two massive canine and a associate. So, any future strikes are postponed. Now I’m off to purchase extra sunflowers for this weekend.
Do you reside alone? Do you prefer it? I’d love to listen to…
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